If You Could Turn Back Time…Would You?
How connected are you to your tools and toys?
Iâ€™m not talking about the items that you may actually find in your toolbox or in your childrenâ€™s toybox. Iâ€™m talking about the things that youâ€™ve come to see as necessary parts of your everyday life - those things that you couldnâ€™t live without.
In many cases, sadly, these items are largely technologically-based. Think about it - how did you feel the last time you left your smartphone at home or forgot it in your other bag? Ever try to take a technological holiday, even for a weekend? Difficult, isnâ€™t it? And your kids? If theyâ€™re like mine, theyâ€™re already connected - literally - to the tech toys. Tablets, video games and online videos have become standard fare for even the youngest of children. Itâ€™s a new world order and families work, play and learn via digital and technological means.
So how could a family possibly exist without the items that have come to be seen as standard and trusted tools in their everyday lives? One family did it - for a year. To be exact, they chose a year that they liked, one that was many years in the past: 1986. This family in particular chose the year of the parentsâ€™ births as they benchmark time frame that they would use as a basis for how they were going to live for 365 days. Forsaking all technologies and conveniences that mark the lifestyles of todayâ€™s day and age, they pulled out the VCR, videotapes and Super Mario brothers and got busy. Oh - they also got mullets, kids included.
This foray into the past is an interesting and fascinating experiment, particularly in this day and age where many of us are connected - literally and figuratively - to our tech devices. The thought of going through our lives without the conveniences that we have come to expect and rely upon seems almost unimaginable. And kids? Thatâ€™s a whole other story. Entertaining them circa 1986 style means forgoing the modern conveniences like iPads, Netflix, video games and a range of distractions that we use in trying to keep our little ones quiet.
Perhaps this point is where the sheer horror of this familyâ€™s story begins. Thatâ€™s right - I said “horror.” Because we all know that most of us could not give up our current lifestyles and modern conveniences to go back in time and live like they did over 25 years ago. If we did, weâ€™d have to drastically change the way we do things, in more ways than one. No more reliance on technology to provide us with those much-needed “quick fixes” when our kids started to meltdown in the grocery store or doctorâ€™s office. There would be no more text messages as methods of communications for our Tweens and Teens when they were outside of our home or view. And think about this for a moment: weâ€™d actually have to talk to our children from a landline or pay telephone when they went to a friendâ€™s home or to the mall. Hard to imagine, isnâ€™t it?
Perhaps the real story about this familyâ€™s journey back to the â€™80â€™s is not about their experiences living a more simple life, but our collective fear of what their experiment says about the way we are living our lives now. The idea of losing our technological crutches that weâ€™ve come to depend on is a frightening one for those of us who can admit to our reliance (and often addiction) on technology. The thought of no longer having our trusted distractions to keep a certain distance between ourselves and our loved ones is enough to send a shiver down our collective spines. Hard to admit, I know, but true nonetheless. Sometimes it seems so much easier to bury our heads in a movie on the iPad or to pop in our headphones and listen to music than to actually connect - really connect - with our kids. Conversely, our kids are similarly distracted, more often than not, texting their friends or turning to an online community for support. It takes a strong man or woman who can turn on, tune in and drop out of the digital age in favour of a lifestyle that does not include the distractions of daily life.
Kudos to this family who had the courage to ditch the modern conveniences that theyâ€™d come to love in order to get back into the lives of their children. I couldnâ€™t do it. Could you?
If you had to live your life with your kids the way it was 25 years ago, do you think you could do it? Why or why not? Tell me about it in the comments section below.
VIDEO: Watch a family live life like itâ€™s 1986
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