RADIO INTERVIEW: Broadscast - “Sweat-Shaming” is Apparently a Thing Now
We’ve heard of “body-shaming,” “slut-shaming,” “fat-shaming.”
Now there’s apparently a new type of humiliation that’s making the rounds, likely at a Starbucks near you.
“Sweat-shaming,” as it’s called, is the experience of being shamed for being, well, sweaty, because we all know that that’s a bad thing.
And because this blog is all about kids and parenting, let me tie this in within a familial context:
Do we now have to worry about not only our dear children being bullied at school for a number of reasons, but be aware that they may be “sweat-shamed” as well? More importantly, are we going to let our kids grow up to be adults who jump on the latest bandwagon in order to capitalize on trends, to the detriment of those who have actually experienced real shaming? In my humble opinion, “fat-shaming,” “slut-shaming” and “body-shaming” are real things; “sweat-shaming is not.”
It all started with this article:
According to this piece in the Washington Post, this woman ventured into a coffee shop while sweating profusely, after finishing a gruelling workout. She was called out (apparently) about her dripping-with-sweat presence in line by a not-so-nice woman in line behind her. This hurt her feelings. Accordingly, she conveyed her pain in an article for the Washington Post.
“Her intentions were to disapprove how I looked. This was sweat shaming.” -Amy Roe, whose profuse sweating was commented on by a fellow Starbucks customer
Following her admission of the humiliation and shame that she felt, there were a number of other, similar incidents that came to light, with more people admitting to being the victims of “sweat-shaming.” I listened to this podcast, from Canada’s public broadcaster, CBC, that interviewed yet another woman who too, had been “sweat-shamed.” You can listen to the full interview here:
While the unsolicited comment from the person in line at Starbucks represented bad form, equating it with behaviour that is very real and very damaging is, in itself, damaging. People who have been the brunt of being teased and shamed for not falling into the prescribed boxes are facing very real battles, daily. To add “sweat-shaming” as a struggle that is on par with being shamed for not having the perceived “right” body type, or being judged for behaviour of a sexual nature detracts from the awareness that needs to occur for these real shaming incidents to stop.
Anyway, if it’s not already clear, I don’t think that “sweat-shaming” is a thing. Not now, not ever.
Listen to my discussion with the fabulous women on Broadscast about this topic, here, and let me know what you think of this trend:
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