Keeping Up With the Kids - Top 5 Tips For Tired or Older Parents
Whew! Just looking at this picture tires me out! How about you?
If you’re like me - or so many other parents out there - the ability to keep up with your kids is a challenge to say the least!
With the trend towards parenting by the over-35 crowd, it’s no wonder that there’s a collective feeling of exhaustion that exists amongst those parents who just want to put their feet up and chill in front of the TV. The stress ratchets up a notch or two when your child insists on a physically-challenging activity that may not only tire you, but injure you as well.
Thankfully, there are options for those who, for whatever reasons, be it age, physical limitations or otherwise, are not able to literally keep up with their kids. Read on for simple solutions that won’t put a damper on the fun.
Five Tips For Tired or Older Parents
1) Set your own goals - You’re NOT 25 and nor should you behave like you are, or expect to keep up with those 10 or more years younger than you. Yes - the young, energetic moms and dads may be able to physically race after their kids but you, dear parent, are likely more financially stable, more patient and less worried about the minutia of day-to-day life. For these reasons alone, march to the beat of your own drum and leave the (literal) running around to those who have the energy to do so.
“March to the beat of your own drum and leave the (literal) running around to those who have the energy to do so”
2) Get in shape, within reason - Physical fitness has been proven to provide the stamina and energy required for running after active kids. Do something that is healthy but not stressful on your body. Keeping tip number one in mind, set your own goals and make plans to be healthy within the range of your own abilities (not anyone else’s). Consider yoga, walking or low-impact cardio activities that will get your blood pumping without causing any physical pain or damage.
3)Think “quality” not “quantity.” - So, you’re not up for another three hours of touch football following your two-hour hike through the local trail? No worries - it’s not about how much you do with your child, but rather how memorable and fun each activity you do with them becomes. In other words, it’s perfectly fine to hike with your child for half-an hour as opposed to two hours. Similarly, play that game of touch football but end it before you start feeling those physical strains, aches and pains.
4) Encourage non-physical activities - Fun and games doesn’t always have to include running, jumping, climbing or dancing. Make some new memories with your kids that don’t include a physical element. Do what you did when you were a kid: play board games, cards, go for walks or lie down outside and gaze at the stars on a clear night.
5) Meditate and be thankful - You’re in a place where so many would like to be - you’re “mom” or “dad” to a child/children and there’s nothing more amazing than that. It’s all about quality, not quantity. Use mindfulness to help you both appreciate the positive things in your life (like family) as well as to calm your mind when the stress of parenting gets to be a challenge on various occasions.
And yes - I am both an older and a tired parent. Read all about it here:
What do you do to keep up with your kids? Tell me about it in the comments section below.
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